1. If your child has spoken to a counselor before, let them know I am a similar sort of “talking person.”

2. Be sure your child knows that I am not a doctor. You would be surprised how many children come to the office worried they will be getting a shot!

3. Let your child know both Mom and Dad have been to my office, and I am looking forward to meeting them.

4. Convey that my office is a fun place with lots of toys, games, art, Legos, playdoh, puzzles, and trains, and that children never have to discuss anything about their family that feels uncomfortable. I will be their special person during this time of family change and will do everything possible to ensure they are happy, healthy, and safe.

5. On their way out, all little people get to choose something from the treasure box!

6. It is not your child’s burden to share anything with me that they are not comfortable talking about. Please do not tell your child to, or not to, discuss any particular topic/situation/experience. Coaching your child is harmful, and it is obvious to an evaluator when a parent has done so.